I am not an expert on Islam, nor am I an expert on marriage. I am not a psychologist or a marriage counsellor. I am simply a Muslim woman who has learned a few things along this long and bumpy road of life. Consider me an older sister, who cares about you and only wishes to give you the best advice that she knows. It is my hope and prayer, firstly, that this book pleases Allah, the Almighty. Secondly, it may help someone going through what can be a truly tremoulchious time in their life, or even open a dialogue about a subject that can be very difficult to talk about.